Life is such a funny chain of events with twists and turns which none of us can ever predict. We all seem so much in control but still very much fragile to the events that happen to us. Would life still be so exciting if it was so predictable and we would have all achieved our targets. I can bet that most of the people who were considered highly talented by friends teachers and family end up in a very different way. Rarely any of them would agree that have ended up in a completely different path then they would have ever imagined. This is what makes man to actually take up the challenge when in the bottom of their hearts they all know that that life is a teacher who has its mood swings more than your wife and more naughty than your kids.....
Your destiny like many say is predefined and decided but still we all do not want to accept it. I can challenge that most of us have accepted or will accept the fact only when we realise that we can not do anything about future .
The future like many learned men have said is always in dark.,it is we who have too throw light on the path and that is the sole motive of our life. If we are able to find the path we coin the word "success" otherwise we are only like a traveler running from pillar to post in search of the inner peace.
So what changes from our childhood to our senility..... Is it our innocence or is it our ability to trust others.... I think most of us will agree the innocence with which we trust people dies as we grow older and older. The ability to believe that all helping hand need not be trusted....I think that is what we humans term the word experience...
Experience is nothing but our ability not to trust blindly what our fellow humans blindly want us to believe or do. The ability to see the world in reality rather than the dream world is what growing up is all about....
Not everyone of is lucky that this phase of childhood to teenage is without any major harsh reality of life.......For the few unfortunate ones that lays the foundation stone for various psychological disorders for in the latter stage. By a study in uk it was concluded that childhood insults are one of the primary and strongest reasons for adult psychological disorders....
But still life is very beautiful as it has lots of surprises, challenges and above all emotions which makes this journey unique to each and every indivisual. Inspite of none of us having a complete control on the chain of events we have absolute power to derive happiness and content from whatever good or bad it has to offer us
Your destiny like many say is predefined and decided but still we all do not want to accept it. I can challenge that most of us have accepted or will accept the fact only when we realise that we can not do anything about future .
The future like many learned men have said is always in dark.,it is we who have too throw light on the path and that is the sole motive of our life. If we are able to find the path we coin the word "success" otherwise we are only like a traveler running from pillar to post in search of the inner peace.
So what changes from our childhood to our senility..... Is it our innocence or is it our ability to trust others.... I think most of us will agree the innocence with which we trust people dies as we grow older and older. The ability to believe that all helping hand need not be trusted....I think that is what we humans term the word experience...
Experience is nothing but our ability not to trust blindly what our fellow humans blindly want us to believe or do. The ability to see the world in reality rather than the dream world is what growing up is all about....
Not everyone of is lucky that this phase of childhood to teenage is without any major harsh reality of life.......For the few unfortunate ones that lays the foundation stone for various psychological disorders for in the latter stage. By a study in uk it was concluded that childhood insults are one of the primary and strongest reasons for adult psychological disorders....
But still life is very beautiful as it has lots of surprises, challenges and above all emotions which makes this journey unique to each and every indivisual. Inspite of none of us having a complete control on the chain of events we have absolute power to derive happiness and content from whatever good or bad it has to offer us
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