Acceptance for personal growth

 How well are you at accepting your control over your circumstances, as well as your inability to control them? 

Are you able to cope with the constant flux of your life?

You can take control of your life when you can accept everything, including yourself and other people. In charge, it's easier to recognize how you can improve your own life. You'll find who you are when you learn to accept yourself as you are.

People around the world feel that when we act the same way at all times, we've established our identity. That's completely out of line with current events! Many good and bad influences have infiltrated our minds and bodies to the point where we now experience all of the above. In order for our personality to reflect these changes, we have to feel something new on a daily basis.

We've become numb to the horrors of the world around us.  Everyone's entitled to their own opinions, yet we must all admit that we have passed judgement on someone at some point. Changing our own conduct and mindset can have a positive impact on the people around us. A part of learning and acceptance is this. You can travel the world by becoming your own influence and letting other influences bring bad luck into the life of another individual.

You'll want to laugh more once you've accepted reality. You'll notice the humour in someone's conduct if they're making you nuts, for example. If you make a mistake and feed into their naivete, you might see the humour in it. You'll feel better about yourself if you can see the humour in everything. In order to improve yourself, you may inspire others to follow suit. It's been shown that actions speak louder than words when it comes to inspiring someone to make a difference.

You'll develop a new hunger for self-improvement as you mature, and that hunger will lead you to new discoveries. As your health improves, you'll realise that you need to exercise, eat healthily, and spend time with people who inspire you. You'll be motivated to work hard to achieve your goals as soon as you get a taste of this hunger.

Life and growing up

     Life is such a funny chain of events with twists and turns which none of us can ever predict. We all seem so much in control but still very much fragile to the events that happen to us. Would  life still be so exciting if it was so predictable and we would have all achieved our targets. I can bet that most of the people who were considered highly talented by friends teachers and family end up in a very different way. Rarely any of them would agree that have ended  up in a completely  different  path then they would have ever imagined. This is what makes  man to actually take up the challenge  when in the bottom of their  hearts they all know that that life is a teacher who has its mood swings more than your wife and more naughty than your kids.....
Your destiny like many say is predefined and decided but still we all do not want to accept it. I can challenge that most  of us have accepted or will accept the fact only when we realise that we can not do anything about future .
The future like many learned men have said is always in dark.,it is we who have too throw light on the path and that is the sole motive of our life. If we are able to find the path we coin the word "success" otherwise we are only like a traveler running from pillar to post in search of the inner peace.
             So what changes from our childhood to our senility..... Is it our innocence or is it our ability to trust others.... I think most of us will agree the innocence with which we trust people  dies as we grow older and older. The ability to believe that all helping hand need not be trusted....I think that is what we humans  term the word experience...
Experience is nothing but our ability not to trust blindly what our fellow humans blindly want us to believe or do. The ability to see the world  in reality rather than the dream world is what growing up is all about....
Not everyone of is lucky that this phase of childhood to teenage is without any major harsh reality of life.......For the few unfortunate ones that lays the foundation stone for various psychological disorders for  in the latter stage. By a study in uk it was concluded  that childhood insults are one of the primary and strongest reasons for adult psychological disorders....
But still life is very beautiful as it has lots of surprises, challenges and above all emotions which makes this journey unique to each and every  indivisual. Inspite of none of us having a complete control on the chain of events we have absolute power to derive happiness and content from whatever good or bad it has to offer us